Yeah, sounds like Josef Hader. 
Ok. In that case: Try a tranquilizer (for example valerian or a tea) and see if that helps too.
Pro tip: you can say it in english to everybody you donĀ“t know the gender of. It = the child is perfectly okay.
Is that really correct in terms of gender mainstreaming? For example male and female people would like to be named as such today? And what about aliens? No, no. Iāll write it all down. I donāt want to wake up one morning with an axe in my brain just because I forgot a genderā¦
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IĀ“m sure there is a carticarture already of an university that has a toilet for āthe third genderā which is full of tumbleweeds.
On current Simpsons youĀ“ve got me completly stumped.
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You could also just use ātheyāā¦
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Yes, in plural.
I remember one of the first lessons we learned at school was to no find the following exchange weird:
āIs this your father?ā āYes, it isā I know itĀ“s a subject object thing. But to a german it is weird to refer to someone as āitā when you clearly know the gender and say anything but āYes, he isā.
What we didnĀ“t learn was the odd habit of some people to assign gender (mostly female) to certain objects like, ships, carsā¦or gunsā¦
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You can use it in singular too. To use it on @Someoneās example: āI donāt think they would be able to follow the story.ā
Yes, that is very weird (and old-fashioned).
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Okay when refering to children in general. But what about a specific child you do not know the gender of?
Seems still to be very popular in the states.
Thatās what I meant by āsingularā. I was referring to one child in that example. I think thatās why we use it - when you donāt know the gender. For example, if I was talking about a child I heard a story about and didnāt know them, I might say āapparently they hit someone with a catapultā.
I think we started doing it to avoid being sexist or making assumptions about an unknown gender. Then again the Oxford English Dictionary suggests itās been a thing since the 18th century.
I think some people object to using it like that but it is very common. I donāt know if @tasse-tee has any thoughts.
I would always prefer to use ātheyā over āitā for a child. I think me and my friends have had this conversation before - if one of them randomly uses āitā for a child, itās likely that another one of them will pick up on it and ask if itās the right word to use.
I thought Calypso had problems the other day trying to move all posts to another topic. If more of us try to split up threads it could get messy.
Letās learn a little bit of italian. The importance of the accents.
Which month are we now?
- April
How we say āAprilā in italian?
- Aprile
WOW, itās very similar to English, though.
But pay very attention to the accent, because if you made a mistake, the same word has a completely different meaning.
So:
Month of April --> Apr Ƭ le (accent on I, not on the āAā like in english)
ā¦ because Aprile, means āOpen themā!!
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So what about this thing:
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Eheh: Apr Ƭ lia
Apr is a valid Italian word? 
I would have more guessed that it is like āCanal Grandeā vs. āCanale Grandeāā¦?
Uhm, I wrote Apr [space] i with accent [space] le
It was meant to be a single word: AprƬle (with the accent on i)
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